Here’s Loralie, holding a letter that my wife wrote to her. We financially support Loralie’s education through an organization called Three Angels Children’s Relief.

“Three Angels Christian Academy currently serves over 285 children from preschool through 6th grade. We strive to provide uniforms, textbooks, instruction and often, the only meal of the day for these children. Even more important, the Gospel of Christ is shared daily through worship, study and example.”

Sponsor a child for $27/month. |  Follow Three Angels on Facebook.

So on Thursday morning, I was thinking about how I could help the situation in Haiti, and came up with the idea of a local benefit concert. Long story short, the first show kicked off Friday night, and we raised over $900 from generous donations. All proceeds went directly to Three Angels Children’s Relief, an organization that I’ve written about before because I sponsor a young girl named Loralie at their orphanage and school. I first checked with Jim and Candy, who are in charge of Antioch, the cafe-style venue in Newhall with a stage, sound system, tables, couches, etc, and they were excited about the idea. They already had Josiah James on tour from NorCal scheduled to play Friday night, and it worked about well because he was fine with turning this into a benefit concert, and pop-artist Jess Penner drove up from LA to join the cause. Friday I had sent out an email to my coworkers at Paul Mitchell’s corporate office here in Santa Clarita, and I also decided to test the power of Twitter. I sent a tweet to the local newspaper’s account, as well as the local radio station KHTS AM-1220. The newspaper responded by reposting my details on when and where the benefit concert would take place, and the radio station announced the show over the air. Brendie Bandara (whose name I recognized from when I worked at the City Hall) also got involved after I emailed Shannon Hoffmann of Three Angels. Facebook came in handy with some promotion on the fan pages.

Although the money we raised in this small way is just one drop of rain into the sea of needs, it was still encouraging to see it come together. As a Christian I had the opportunity to talk to a few people about this event and the bigger issue of serving in general. It’s worth mentioning to my fellow Christians that if you don’t think you can do something for poor and hurting people, I’m not here to give some cheesy “You can do it!” pitch, but I’ll instead say that God can and will give you the motivation, creativity or whatever it is you need in order to serve others instead of yourself, provided that you honestly ask God for that. If you want to make a difference in the world, you first have to actually have a reason to. And making a difference with giving to Haiti doesn’t have to mean you rebuild the country; it could mean that your generosity leads to a changed perception in your neighbor who previously hated you and your Christian religion, and that’s what they call “planting a seed.” I’ve taken shots at different religions (different faiths in general, including atheism; not the individual people who adhere to them) before, because I believe that once honestly and carefully studied, they cannot explain the world we live in with the depth that Christianity can, not to mention that they don’t have the power to change a life from the inside out as what inevitably happens for true followers of Christ. You can show me a kind buddhist, a polite Mormon, a smiling Catholic or any other nice person, but show me a weak and incapable Christian who, in spite of his or her own admittedly selfish pursuits and desires, chooses, only by the unexplainable strength given by God, to turn their focus in life onto others without need for repayment via money, pleasure, or their reputation, and now you’ve got people around them asking serious questions. And in answer to those curious onlookers, this messenger, knowing their own unworthiness in the face of a holy God, cannot help but be all the more excited about this God whom they serve, not some never-ending religious checklist they’re working on for this God.

One final thought to hammer that last point home. “I wish I was there in Haiti” has been the recurring thought running through my mind as I’ve watched the details unfold on the news over the last few days after this tragic earthquake. There’s not nearly enough help with the overwhelming devastation. While I was thinking about why I wasn’t there, I realized that my mindset has changed over the last few years in the way I’m asking the question. ”Why should I go?” has been replaced with ”Why can’t I go?” to which I do have practical answers that are keeping me where I am now, but it’s interesting to note the shift in thought-process. Here’s what I’m saying: genuine Christianity changes lives from the inside out, and if the effect of that comes out in some small way during my life, then trace it back to the One who caused it.

(Note: thoughts expressed here came from myself and aren’t necessarily shared by the people or companies mentioned. I apologize for not going into the depth I would’ve liked to on each separate issue. There’s always more to be said.)

Last year I started with Three Angels Relief to sponsor a child’s education at the orphanage in Haiti, and this year I’m adding Charlie’s Lunch Ministries, which provides food worldwide after a 5-year old disabled kid made it a point to give his lunch away. I’m only giving a couple bucks a month, so don’t hold me up on a high platform for this. But do take a minute to read up on either of those organizations if you’re curious. I’m excited to do this for a couple reasons, and I’ve come to see that the Christian attitude of giving is so far superior to a warm and fuzzy confirmation of feeling good about myself. It’s bigger than that. Maybe the missionary who spoke in my church yesterday, Peter DeSoto, put it best when he was talking about the people down in El Salvador serving the community by building a water pipeline in unity with their pastor to provide clean water to residents where it’s desperately needed. “It’s not really a sacrifice. What you give up is so little compared to what you gain.” …And this is coming from a guy who went down to serve the people, got shot in the neck by a gunman, recovered in the hospital and went back despite his vocal cords not working the same after the bullet’s damage to his throat. 

So if you like this idea about giving, the biggest compliment you can pay is to imitate it on your own, or make up something similar and stick to it. Talk or write about it too, if you feel like that’s appropriate in your circumstance. Notice I blended the financially giving aspect with the physically serving aspect, because I think they go hand in hand. And if you can only do one or the other due to things you’ve committed yourself to or the high standard of living you signed up for, then maybe it’s something you can’t change until those things are first changed (IF possible; I’m not in favor of you neglecting family needs!). In Mark 12:41-44 I’m reminded that this little goal is actually pathetic because I’m still just giving out of my extra instead of giving all I have, as in that example Jesus praises the widow for what she did. And hey, if your local church is in need of the money to help the poor, certainly give help them out instead of just any organization.

Someday hopefully I learn how to prioritize both giving and serving better than I do now. I’m trying to remember who I heard speak a couple years ago that had the personal goal of increasing his percentage of financial giving each year, not just upping the dollar amount when the paycheck got fatter. That’s radical. 

This is going to be awesome. I love living this stuff out.