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		<title>Life as a paraplegic &#8211; Kevin&#8217;s Recovery</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 23 Jul 2010 03:38:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Daniel</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I used to set up chairs in church alongside Kevin Mather, before the accident where he was hit on a bicycle by a truck traveling 60mph. That happened just over a year ago, and he&#8217;s been busy on a long and tough road to recovery since then, with frequent visits to the hospital in Northridge (where [...]]]></description>
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<p><a href="http://www.comfortbetrays.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/tiffany_and_kevin_mather.jpg"><img class="alignright size-thumbnail wp-image-591" title="Tiffany and Kevin Mather" src="http://www.comfortbetrays.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/tiffany_and_kevin_mather-150x150.jpg" alt="KevinsRecovery.com" width="150" height="150" /></a>I used to set up chairs in church alongside Kevin Mather, before the accident where he was hit on a bicycle by a truck traveling 60mph. That happened just over a year ago, and he&#8217;s been busy on a long and tough road to recovery since then, with frequent visits to the hospital in Northridge (where Copperhill Church immediately threw supporting arms around he and his wife after the accident).</p>
<p>Check out this video Kevin and Tiffany recently shared on their blog ( <a href="http://kevinsrecovery.com/blog/">KevinsRecovery.com</a> ) showing the changes, and what life is like as a paraplegic:</p>
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<p>&#8220;We’re still praying for a miracle &amp; are sure hoping that’s Jesus’ plan, but we’ll see where He continues to take us.&#8221; -Kev and Tiff</p>
<p>What an encouragement his life is to the rest of us when it comes to suffering well and trusting God when it really counts. They still need our prayers, so let&#8217;s not forget them.</p>
<p><span style="color: #ffffff;">.</span></p>
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		<title>Film trailer for &#8220;Don&#8217;t Waste Your Life Sentence&#8221;</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 19 Jul 2010 14:00:16 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Daniel</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[From the DesiringGod.org website: The Louisiana State Penitentiary in Angola, LA, is the largest and historically one of the bloodiest maximum-security prisons in the USA. In 2009, Desiring God and John Piper were invited to Angola to learn about prison life, hear from men who have been radically changed by the gospel, and minister to [...]]]></description>
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<p>From the <a href="http://www.desiringgod.org/Blog/2541_dont_waste_your_life_sentence_film_premiere/">DesiringGod.org website</a>:</p>
<blockquote><p>The Louisiana State Penitentiary in Angola, LA, is the largest and historically one of the bloodiest maximum-security prisons in the USA. In 2009, Desiring God and John Piper were invited to Angola to learn about prison life, hear from men who have been radically changed by the gospel, and minister to many of the 5,000 inmates.</p>
<p><em>Don&#8217;t Waste Your Life Sentence</em> confronts you with the realities of inmates who, though their lives appear to have been wasted, often have a greater grasp on eternity than those on the outside.</p></blockquote>
<p>Watch the trailer below. If you&#8217;re near Minneapolis Minnesota, join Bethlehem Baptist Church for the film premier and the prison ministry they do. (<a href="http://beta.desiringgod.org/dwyls">Info here</a>).</p>
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<p>&#8220;It maybe that your presence here will enable you to see better than the people in my church can see.&#8221; <em>-John Piper</em></p>
<p>&#8220;It&#8217;s easy to get into trouble. But it&#8217;s so hard to get out of.&#8221; <em>-Inmate</em></p>
<p><span style="color: #ffffff;">. </span></p>
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		<title>Warm blankets &amp; hot chocolate for the homeless</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 28 Dec 2009 09:39:29 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Daniel</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[The other night I had the privilege going back to serve some appreciative men and women in the Skid Row area of downtown Los Angeles. You really start to see your comfortable life in a different light when you&#8217;re talking with those who have no place of their own to rest their head. The best thing I [...]]]></description>
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<p><a href="http://comfortbetrays.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/12/truck_of_blankets_for_the_homeless.jpg"><img class="alignright size-thumbnail wp-image-280" title="truck_of_blankets_for_the_homeless" src="http://comfortbetrays.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/12/truck_of_blankets_for_the_homeless-150x150.jpg" alt="Truck full of blankets donated by John Paul Mitchell Systems for the homeless" width="150" height="150" /></a>The other night I had the privilege going back to serve some appreciative men and women in the Skid Row area of downtown Los Angeles. You really start to see your comfortable life in a different light when you&#8217;re talking with those who have no place of their own to rest their head. The best thing I heard that night was the confident and sincere voice of a gentleman who came up to our group to tell us we had given hope to another man that night; that we had &#8220;planted a seed&#8221; with someone whose faith was weak. It almost left me speechless, as I looked around not only at his face, but the wide eyes of the guests I had invited along from work to help us serve the cups of hot chocolate and hand out the blankets (generously donated by those I work with at Paul Mitchell) packed into my truck bed.</p>
<p><a href="http://comfortbetrays.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/12/delivering_stuff_to_the_poor.jpg"><img class="alignright size-thumbnail wp-image-281" title="delivering_stuff_to_the_poor" src="http://comfortbetrays.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/12/delivering_stuff_to_the_poor-150x150.jpg" alt="Hot chocolate and blankets for the poor" width="150" height="150" /></a>Another comment I overheard that night, &#8221;I just knew they&#8217;d come!&#8221; came from a smiling middle-aged man to his friend as we stopped at his street, making our announcement about the free blankets and hot drinks. More highlights: The woman who we gave a baby&#8217;s blanket to because a kind young mom from my work had donated it; the man who special-requested a sleeping bag that we were able to provide for after one was generously donated by Matt&#8217;s coworker; the enthusiastic responses from three ladies I work with who want to come along next time we go. One lady down the hall mentioned checking if the local Starbuck&#8217;s stores would consider each donating one of the large catering containers for us to give out on a cold night. It gets me fired up to see other people coming on board to a beneficial cause. Beneficial not only to the recipients of the gifts, but sometimes much more to the giver. Interesting how that works.</p>
<p><a href="http://comfortbetrays.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/12/serving_hot_chocolate_to_homeless_los_angeles.jpg"><img class="alignright size-thumbnail wp-image-279" title="serving_hot_chocolate_to_homeless_los_angeles" src="http://comfortbetrays.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/12/serving_hot_chocolate_to_homeless_los_angeles-150x150.jpg" alt="Serving hot chocolate to the needy in LA" width="150" height="150" /></a>A lot of amazing things happen when you put together something like this and invite people to participate. I&#8217;m not one to force my beliefs on others, and I know that can certainly turn into a prideful excuse for not speaking up about an issue when I know I should, but when I exercise the God-given ability and motivation to do something out of the ordinary, I suddenly find that people have genuine questions, to which I have the opportunity and obligation to respond. One of the simplest responses I&#8217;ve been able to use in this case is just to explain that the homeless guy on the street, even the drug addict or the prostitute, is a picture of who I am in front of a holy God, who would still be perfectly justified if he had never reached out to help me.</p>
<p>And my response to those who have questions can all go back to the joy and hope that is within me, that no one can take away. One of the exciting points about 1 Peter 3:15, when talking about honoring Jesus Christ by &#8220;always being prepared to make a defense to anyone who asks you for a reason for the hope that is in you,&#8221; is the assumption that people are actually going to ask questions. The most likely way you&#8217;re going to have people ask questions is if you&#8217;re different, and that had better be in a good way, not some obnoxious, personal preference issue, but I&#8217;d rather not go into those specifics here. A quick side note about the Apostle Peter&#8217;s charge in 3:15 is to notice that he cautions the believer to &#8220;do it with gentleness and respect,&#8221; which far too many Christians completely miss. I think it was Tim Chaddick of Reality LA in Hollywood that was suggesting how one of the biggest ways people come to Christianity is by what they saw and wanted in the life of a Christian they knew; ironically that happens to also be the biggest reason people reject Christianity, after observing hypocrisy in the life of someone claiming to be a Christian. And yet of course there is no formula for convincing people to become a Christian, because the Bible repeatedly nails down the truth that God does the work in someone&#8217;s heart, even though the believer may have the honor of verbally explaining it as they live out Christianity with their actions. I could say or do all I want, or give the strongest possible intellectual defense for Christianity, and that is beneficial in the right context, but it&#8217;s certainly not enough to change someone&#8217;s heart. Christians are to go do the Great Commission of Matthew 28:18-20, but success for the believer, thankfully, does not depend on the audience&#8217;s response to the message.  A Christian does what the Bible calls them to do, faithfully living it out as a way of life, then the end result, whatever it may be, is left up to God, who has his reasons in all that he does and allows. &#8220;For my thoughts are not your thoughts, neither are your ways my ways, declares the LORD.&#8221; (Isaiah 55:8).</p>
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