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		<title>A return of the &#8220;social gospel&#8221; in evangelical Christianity</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Photo credit: ComfortBetrays.com Pastor Gary Gilley of Southern View Chapel (Springfield, IL) wrote a helpful analysis on elements of the old social gospel movement showing up in today&#8217;s Christianity, redefining the mission of the church: One of the important issues which the church has always had to address is that of its role in society. In the Old [...]]]></description>
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<p>Pastor Gary Gilley of Southern View Chapel (Springfield, IL) <a href="http://www.svchapel.org/resources/articles/21-church-trends/733-the-social-gospel-yesterday-and-today-part-1">wrote a helpful analysis</a> on elements of the old social gospel movement showing up in today&#8217;s Christianity, redefining the mission of the church:</p>
<blockquote><p>One of the important issues which the church has always had to address is that of its role in society. In the Old Testament, the Lord chose Abraham to be the father of a called-out race of people. Years later, the Lord would establish the nation of Israel under the Mosaic Covenant. Detailed laws and regulations were given to Israel at the time including how that nation was to be governed, how poverty was to be dealt with, how widows and orphans were to be helped and how injustices were to be corrected. All of these matters were addressed almost exclusively within the context of the nation of Israel, with relatively minor concern for the surrounding nations. The Old Covenant would continue to be in force throughout Old Testament history until finally superseded at the dawning of the church age in Acts 2 with the coming of the Holy Spirit at the day of Pentecost. While the Jewish people and the nation of Israel still retain a primary place in the plan of God, and the Lord still has an eschatological plan for Israel, presently we live in what is commonly called the church age. The church, which functions as the chosen people of God for this age, is composed of regenerate people of all nationalities. It is not a nation in an official sense and has not been given laws by which a governmental structure could function. The church, being the people of God scattered throughout the globe, cannot possibly function as the nation of Israel did during the Old Testament times.</p>
<p>Still, most recognize that Christians live as citizens not only of heaven but also of earth and as a result have responsibilities pertaining to life on this planet here and now. What those responsibilities are and how they are to be worked out has been the topic of much debate for almost 2000 years. The pendulum has swung at times from total disinterest in this world to the idea that solving social problems is the primary objective of the church. With the advent of the internet and other rapid forms of communication, a plethora of voices is weighing in on this issue. Most recently the shift toward the social agenda has gained the upper hand in most evangelical circles and is rapidly being given equal status with the proclamation of the gospel message. As a matter of fact, a two-tiered gospel has arisen composed of both the Great Commission and the so-called Cultural Mandate. In this paper I want to try to make some sense of all of this and draw a conclusion which I believe is faithful to the New Testament program for the church. We will begin with a glance at history&#8230;.</p></blockquote>
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<blockquote><p>&#8230;Some of the most popular Christian leaders and authors stress the social agenda. <strong>Francis Chan</strong>, in his wildly popular book Crazy Love, wants Christians to live as simply as possible in order to give more toward the alleviation of “suffering in the world and change the reputation of His bride in America.”[25] I think one of the reasons Chan’s book has been received with such enthusiasm is that he is not telling people anything that our culture is not already saying. When Bill Gates and Warren Buffett pledged much of their vast fortunes toward the same agenda, the world applauded, just as it has for Chan. Chan is concerned about the reputation of the church in America, and not without reason. However, the true church doing the true work of God (calling people to Christ) will never win the world’s approval. Our message is offensive (1 Cor 1:18-25) and once the world catches on to that we are far more likely to be vilified and persecuted than we are to be cheered – as Jesus promised (Matt 5:11-12). We should find it a source of concern, not a reason for rejoicing, when the world likes us, as Christianity Today in its lead article in August 2011 affirmed it did.</p>
<p>A similar voice is <strong>David Platt</strong>’s and his book Radical. Platt offers better balance than Chan but still propagates a two-tiered gospel composed of the true gospel of redemption and the social gospel. While Platt is careful to elevate the true gospel, the social gospel of feeding the hungry and giving to the poor is the primary focus of the book and accounts for its popularity.[26] He writes, “As we meet needs on earth, we are proclaiming a gospel that transforms lives for eternity.”[27] The author does not advocate the social agenda as opposed to true evangelism, as mentioned above, but he does say that caring for the poor is evidence of salvation. As a matter of fact “rich people who neglect the poor are not the people of God.”[28] However, when we turn to the New Testament, we find that, while Christians are to be loving and generous to all people, they are never told to attempt to remedy the consequences of the sin of unbelieving humanity through social action. Instead, they are instructed to meet the needs of brothers and sisters in Christ, something Platt admits in a footnote (p. 225). In fact, the church is never commissioned to rectify injustices by dealing with the symptoms of sins but to “radically” uproot sin itself through the gospel&#8230;</p></blockquote>
<p>In <a href="http://www.svchapel.org/resources/articles/21-church-trends/733-the-social-gospel-yesterday-and-today-part-1">the full article</a>, which is part 1 in a series, Gilley goes on to examine the view of well-respected evengelical leader <strong>Timothy Keller</strong> on this topic, pointing out that Keller has to quote <strong>N.T. Wright</strong> instead of the Bible in order to support his own view. One other source promoting this social gospel is <strong>Rick Warren</strong> with his PEACE plan: Promote Reconciliation, Equip Servant Leaders, Assist the Poor, Care for the Sick, and Educate the Next Generation.</p>
<p>I encourage you to take a few moments to read the rest (or bookmark it for when you have time later in the week) for an important church history lesson that puts this whole concern in its proper context.</p>
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		<description><![CDATA[&#8220;&#8230;we teach men not to die with Christ but to live in the strength of their dying manhood. We boast not in our weakness but in our strength. Values which Christ has declared to be false are brought back into evangelical favor and promoted as the very life and substance of the Christian way. How [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<blockquote><p><img class="alignright size-full wp-image-866" title="AW Tozer - God's Pursuit of Man" src="http://www.comfortbetrays.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/12/aw-tozer-gods-pursuit-of-man-cover.jpg" alt="AW Tozer - God's Pursuit of Man" width="120" height="189" />&#8220;&#8230;we teach men not to die with Christ but to live in the strength of their dying manhood. We boast not in our weakness but in our strength. Values which Christ has declared to be false are brought back into evangelical favor and promoted as the very life and substance of the Christian way. How eagerly do we seek the approval of this or that man of worldly reputation. How shamefully do we exploit the converted celebrity. Anyone will do to take away the reproach of obscurity from our publicity-hungry leaders: famous athletes, congressmen, world travelers, rich industrialists; before such we bow with obsequious smiles and honor them in our public meetings and in the religious press. Thus we glorify men to enhance the standing of the Church of God, and the glory of the Prince of Life is made to hang upon the transient fame of a man who shall die.&#8221;<br />
<em>- A.W. Tozer, &#8220;<a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1596444193/ref=as_li_ss_tl?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=historyofthei-20&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=390957&amp;creativeASIN=1596444193">God&#8217;s Pursuit of Man: The Divine Conquest of the Human Heart</a>&#8220;</em></p></blockquote>
<p>Consider how tempting it is to seek credibility in this confused and decaying world. Whose approval are we ultimately trying to gain? Does it scare us that a watching world might in fact see us as weak, if we do not have the talents, the image, the academic credentials, the high status equal to the world&#8217;s greatest? Personal pride, my Christian friends. This, our downfall.</p>
<p>Tozer, gathering his knowledge from the Scripture, exposes us for boasting &#8220;not in our weakness but in our strength,&#8221; because a Christian no longer has need of Jesus to save when there is no underlying current of inherent weakness. To hold up an image of personal human strength and triumph, even with God as your business partner, is a distortion of biblical Christianity. The ugly truth of our need is spelled out in the book of Romans:</p>
<blockquote><p>&#8220;But God, being rich in mercy, because of the great love with which he loved us,<strong> even when we were dead in our trespasses</strong>, made us alive together with Christ— by grace you have been saved— and raised us up with him and seated us with him in the heavenly places in Christ Jesus, so that in the coming ages he might show the immeasurable riches of his grace in kindness toward us in Christ Jesus. For by grace you have been saved through faith. And this is not your own doing; it is the gift of God, not a result of works, so that no one may boast. For we are his workmanship, created in Christ Jesus for good works, which God prepared beforehand, that we should walk in them.&#8221; (<a href="http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=eph%202&amp;version=ESV">Romans 3:4-10</a>, ESV)</p></blockquote>
<p>And again:</p>
<blockquote><p>&#8220;For <strong>while we were still weak</strong>, at the right time Christ died for the ungodly. For one will scarcely die for a righteous person—though perhaps for a good person one would dare even to die—but God shows his love for us in that while we were still sinners, Christ died for us. Since, therefore, we have now been justified by his blood, much more shall we be saved by him from the wrath of God. For if while we were enemies we were reconciled to God by the death of his Son, much more, now that we are reconciled, shall we be saved by his life.&#8221; (<a href="http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Romans%205&amp;version=ESV">Romans 5</a>, ESV)</p></blockquote>
<p><img class="alignright size-full wp-image-861" title="Brian Head Welch - Stronger cover - Christian Celebrity" src="http://www.comfortbetrays.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/12/brian-welch-stronger-cover-christian-celebrity.jpg" alt="Brian Head Welch of Korn- Stronger book cover - Christian Celebrity" width="150" height="227" />Consider how alluring it may be to fly the banners over football pro <strong><a href="http://www.washingtonpost.com/sports/in-sports-theres-no-faking-leadership/2011/11/30/gIQAnoksGO_story.html">Tim Tebow</a></strong> of the Denver Broncos, musician <strong><a href="http://www.christianitytoday.com/ct/music/interviews/2007/brianwelch-0807.html">Brian &#8220;Head&#8221; Welch</a> </strong>formerly of Korn, politician <strong><a href="http://articles.latimes.com/2011/sep/02/nation/la-na-perry-christian-20110902">Rick Perry</a></strong>, and all of latest news-headline-grabbing individuals. Some of these people are solid examples of genuine Christian leaders; many are far from authentic, yet that is not the point here. Tozer is getting at how we rally around earthly fame and respect, spotlighting our strength, falsely claiming &#8221;Look here! Come join the Christian side! You can still hold on to your good reputation among your friends!&#8221; when the words of Jesus in <a href="http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=matt%2024&amp;version=ESV">Matthew 24:9</a>, &#8221;&#8230;you will be hated by all nations for my name’s sake,&#8221; speak just the opposite.</p>
<p>Listen to the Apostle Paul&#8217;s advice, where the focus is rightly put on Christ instead:</p>
<blockquote><p>&#8220;&#8230;far be it from me to boast except in the cross of our Lord Jesus Christ.&#8221; (<a href="http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Galatians%206&amp;version=ESV">Galatians 6:14</a>, ESV)</p></blockquote>
<p>Finally, I was reminded of the lyrics in a Stuart Townend song, &#8220;How Deep The Father&#8217;s Love For Us&#8221;</p>
<blockquote><p>&#8220;I will not boast in anything<br />
No gifts, no power, no wisdom<br />
But I will boast in Jesus Christ<br />
His death and resurrection<br />
Why should I gain from His reward?<br />
I cannot give an answer<br />
But this I know with all my heart<br />
His wounds have paid my ransom.&#8221;</p></blockquote>
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		<title>Bible Study at College of the Canyons in Santa Clarita</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Looking for a local college Bible study in Santa Clarita? The GOC Bible study at College of the Canyons (Valencia campus) currently meets on Wednesday nights at 7:15pm. This Christian ministry geared toward the college/university age is through Grace Community Church (Sun Valley, California). Meeting place is the Hasley Hall Theater. Directions and more information about the group can be [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.comfortbetrays.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/11/bible-study-group-retreat.jpg"><img class="alignright size-thumbnail wp-image-843" title="bible-study-group-retreat" src="http://www.comfortbetrays.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/11/bible-study-group-retreat-150x150.jpg" alt="GOC Bible study at College of the Canyons" width="150" height="150" /></a>Looking for a local college Bible study in Santa Clarita? The GOC Bible study at College of the Canyons (Valencia campus) currently meets on Wednesday nights at 7:15pm. This Christian ministry geared toward the college/university age is through Grace Community Church (Sun Valley, California).</p>
<p>Meeting place is the Hasley Hall Theater. Directions and more information about the group can be found on the Bible study website: <a href="http://www.gococ.com/">http://www.gococ.com/</a></p>
<p>We welcome visitors from Valencia, Saugus, Newhall, Canyon Country, Castaic, Val Verde, Agua Dulce, and Stevenson Ranch.</p>
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		<description><![CDATA[This week I’m hurting for Armando, one of my brothers in Christ whose young brother, age 20, was just killed in a car accident in Bakersfield. I want to comfort him, but what can I even say in a time like this? There is no way to make the pain disappear for him and his family. [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This week I’m hurting for Armando, one of my brothers in Christ whose young brother, age 20, was just <a href="http://www.turnto23.com/news/29723955/detail.html ">killed in a car accident</a> in Bakersfield. I want to comfort him, but what can I even say in a time like this? There is no way to make the pain disappear for him and his family. And yet this friend of mine has given deep encouragement to those around him through his response to all this pain.</p>
<p>Armando wrote out the following, hours after getting the phone call from the coroner’s office:</p>
<blockquote><p>&#8212;&#8211;<br />
&#8220;My joy is gone; grief is upon me; my heart is sick within me.&#8221; &#8211; Jeremiah 8:18</p>
<p>I wish I could just see his smiling face. Go to the gym one more time, eat pizza and hot wings with him. Watch our favorite episodes of the Simpsons like we did every week. I have lost today the best friend I&#8217;ve ever had, he was always around when no one else was available to hang out. He would be 21 this November 27th, and I would have drank a beer with him to celebrate. Seems now I will be having that beer in remembrance of him.</p>
<p>The first memories that come to mind was when my mom was pregnant with him, and my parents were explaining to us who we would be staying with while my mom was in the hospital. After he was born, as a baby, me and my brother Gregory would argue who would hold him and read the bible and other books to him.</p>
<p>I remember how we had the nook set up in our house that we called the &#8220;Sammy Corner.&#8221;<br />
I remember how as a little kid he would sing &#8220;Jesus Loves Me,&#8221; and other songs we learned in church and in Sunday School.<br />
I remember the family trips we used to take to New England and Texas.<br />
I remember when he went on a short term missions trip to Mexico with me.</p>
<p>He always wanted to go on camping trips with me, but other events seemed to always get in the way of him.</p>
<p>Most of all, I remember him as an individual who loved the lord, who faithfully helped my mom in her Sunday school class at Riverlakes church. A man who grew frustrated with the Lord for not opening the hearts of his friends and classmates to receive the gospel. A man who knew that his Saving Grace was in Jesus Christ, and not in the things of this world. I don&#8217;t think, in the 20 years I have known him, have had a single argument with him whatsoever.</p>
<p>Now, he stands before the Lord, unashamed, for he was bought with the blood of Christ, and he will dwell with him forever. And until I join him, or til Jesus comes, I will miss his company every day of my life.<br />
I am blessed for having so much time getting to know him, his likes in techno/electronica music, his interest in Geology and Philosophy, his kind, gentle nature.</p>
<p>The days will only get tougher for me and my family. Your prayers and condolences are greatly appreciated in this time of trouble. And I am glad to have the Lord, and my brothers in sisters in Christ to draw strength from.</p>
<p>&#8220;Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of mercies and God of all comfort, who comforts us in all our affliction, so that we may be able to comfort those who are in any affliction, with the comfort with which we ourselves are comforted by God.&#8221; &#8211; 2 Corinthians 1:3-4</p>
<p>All praise be to God our Father in heaven, who sacrificed His Son on our behalf, so that there will come a day when there will be no pain, misery of mourning. But at the moment, I have too much of it all.</p>
<p><em>-Armando Steven Gonzalez</em><br />
<em> In Memorandum of Samuel Joseph Gonzalez</em><br />
<em> My loving brother, and brother in Christ</em><br />
<em> (Nov 27 1990 &#8211; Nov 9 2011)</em><br />
&#8212;&#8211;</p></blockquote>
<p>I’m reminded of the line in the famous hymn, “It Is Well With My Soul” by Horatio Spafford, penned after all four of his daughters died on a ship that sank while crossing the Atlantic in 1873:</p>
<blockquote><p>“When sorrows like sea billows roll; Whatever my lot, Thou has taught me to say, It is well, it is well, with my soul.”</p></blockquote>
<p>Where does the strength to go on even come from? The author of Psalm 46:1 makes it clear:</p>
<blockquote><p>“God is our refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble.” (ESV)</p></blockquote>
<p>We can look to a man named Job in the Bible for another example of suffering well. Upon receiving news from a messenger that his sons and daughters were killed in a natural disaster, he said,</p>
<blockquote><p>“Naked I came from my mother’s womb, and naked shall I return. The LORD gave, and the LORD has taken away; blessed be the name of the LORD.&#8221;  (<a href="http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=job%201&amp;version=ESV ">Job 1:21</a>)</p></blockquote>
<p>How can a Christian deal with pain and suffering? Though I have not personally experienced the tragedy Armando is in the midst of, in recent years I’ve began to learn how the key lies in recognizing that this earth, with its disease and death as a result of man’s fall in Genesis 3, is not truly home for the true Christian. Heaven is our real home, where,</p>
<blockquote><p>“Death will be no more, neither shall there be mourning nor crying nor pain any more, for the former things have passed away” (Rev. 21:4). There will be no temptations to face, no burdens to bear, no guilt to grieve over, no sickness to battle, no unanswered questions to baffle us, no ignorance to humiliate us, and no unsatisfied desires to frustrate us. Nothing that has scarred and stained our lives on earth will be there to shame us. There will be no regrets, no remorse, no second thoughts, no disappointments, and no lost causes. Best of all, there will be no indwelling sin to plague us. As J.I. Packer puts it, “There will be no sin in heaven, for those who are in heaven will not have it in them to sin any more.” Small wonder that David cried out to God: “In your presence is fullness of joy; at your right hand are pleasures for evermore” (Ps. 16:11)  -John Blanchard [<a href="http://www.ligonier.org/learn/articles/how-now-shall-we-die/">full article here</a>]</p></blockquote>
<p>Here are a few additional quotes to consider, mentioned in last month’s issue of <a href="http://www.ligonier.org/tabletalk/">Tabletalk Magazine</a> centered around the topic of dealing with death and disease:</p>
<blockquote><p>We know that we are going to die, but we don’t know when. We know that others we love are going to die, but we don’t know when. Neither do we usually know how. What we do know, however, is exactly what we need to know. What we ought to know is this: knowing more details about our future should not radically change our present.<br />
“What would you do if you knew you had only a year, a month, a week, a day, an hour to live?” may make for an interesting parlor game, but the answer ought to be “The same thing I have been doing, hoping that I have decades left to live.” -R.C. Sproul Jr [<a href="http://www.ligonier.org/learn/articles/a-future-so-bright/">full article here</a>]</p></blockquote>
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<blockquote><p>Obviously, I do not delight in the fact of someone’s death. But I rejoice in the opportunity that the death of a believer opens for communicating the majesty of Christ and the glories of the gospel while comforting the family and friends and presenting salvation by grace to those who are lost but have come to “pay their respects.”<br />
-Harry Reeder [<a href="http://www.ligonier.org/learn/articles/the-pastor-and-the-funeral/">full article here</a>]</p></blockquote>
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<blockquote><p>&#8220;For the believer, death does not have the last word. Death has surrendered to the conquering power of the One who was resurrected as the firstborn of many brethren.&#8221; -RC Sproul [<a href="http://www.ligonier.org/learn/articles/death-does-not-have-the-last-word/">full article here</a>]</p></blockquote>
<p>Please keep in your prayers Armando and his family, as well as those around all of us who are dealing with death.</p>
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		<description><![CDATA[Recently I had the privilege of hearing some of the best advice on leadership, coming from someone who has made a noticeable impact on my life over the last year and a half. This was a question and answer time between Rick Holland and a group of 50 of us young men (college age and recently [...]]]></description>
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<p>Recently I had the privilege of hearing some of the best advice on leadership, coming from someone who has made a noticeable impact on my life over the last year and a half. This was a question and answer time between Rick Holland and a group of 50 of us young men (college age and recently out of college) who are involved in a weekly Grace Community Church Bible study that meets on the campus of College of the Canyons (Santa Clarita, CA). Rick Holland has faithfully served as the pastor over college ministry at Grace Community Church for the last 14 years, and is now moving out to Kansas City to be a full-time pastor at Mission Road Bible Church. The wisdom and maturity he has devoloped over the years of ministry quickly become evident, and my purpose in transcribing some of his quotes here is to encourage and challenge other Christian guys in my life to consider additional ways they can purposefully pursue leadership. Since these are only select quotes with minimal context, you&#8217;ll definitely want to <a href="http://gococ.com/Sermons.aspx">download the full audio</a> from this event (4/27/11) and listen when time permits.</p>
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<div>“Leadership is comprised primarily of influence and decision making.”<br />
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&#8220;A leader is defined by his second decision. A real leader knows how to make a second decision when his first one was the wrong one.&#8221; (Quoting John MacArthur here).<br />
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“Every one of you guys at some level and in some dimension are influencers and decision makers.”<br />
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“If you don&#8217;t lead yourself, someone else will. And that leadership of yourself has to be attached to the Lord.”<br />
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“A spiritual leader is first and foremost attached to God in his dependence.”<br />
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“The women who are in your life will have the most spiritual influence on who you are.”<br />
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“The way that you use your money defines your spiritual leadership.”<br />
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“You’re going to die with nothing&#8211;spend money on people, spend money for ministries.”<br />
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“Humility is the signature of spiritual leadership.”<br />
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“True spiritual leaders are a tremendous minority. And I’d like to see this group change that equation.”<br />
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[Open for question &amp; answer]<br />
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“Do you guys understand how few people in the history of the church have gone to seminary?”<br />
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&#8220;If you&#8217;re pulling hard at the oars of your character, you’re going to have influence and make good decisions. It doesn’t matter how old you are… There’s a great illustration I heard a long time ago that it’s not how long you’ve been sitting in the boat that determines how far you are across the lake; it’s how hard you’ve been pulling at the oars.”<br />
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(Question: “How does a guy in practice—for the people pursuing normal jobs, normal careers—to what level should they be pursuing church involvement, church leadership?”)<br />
“That’s a great question, and the answer is: As much as you can possibly give. Give your free time to the Lord and to the church. Put away with childish things, turn the video games off and disciple somebody.”<br />
“Give your singleness to the church…give all of that extra energy to serving in the church. You have credibility in giving leadership in the church that even full time pastors don’t.”<br />
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(Question: “Practically, what do you do with your wife in leading her—do you go through books together…?”)<br />
“We’ve done a lot of things. We’ve gone through books together, we’ve gone through books of the Bible together, we’ve gone through things with our kids together, we’ve gone through things with our kids apart. All those things are helpful, but&#8211;this might shock you a bit&#8211;Kim and I rarely have devotions together… When she’s walking with the Lord individually, and when I’m walking with the Lord individually, we don’t have official devotions, but everything becomes devotional. We’re always talking about ministry and the things of the lord and the things she’s learning…”<br />
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(Question on timing for daily reading of the Bible)<br />
“Please don&#8217;t fall into the mythology that ‘I’m a morning person, I’m an evening person.’ That’s physiologically impossible. How do I know that? I was just in England this past weekend. When you’re in another place and you have to sleep at different times, and you’re forced to do that, you can. If you chase time zones your body can adjust to anything.”<br />
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(Question on how discipleship works)<br />
“It was Barnabas and Paul, Barnabas and Paul…and then it [became] Paul and Barnabas, Paul and Barnabas, and then Paul. Barnabas had a tremendous influence on Paul in the beginning of his faith… Spiritual friendships are discipleship.”<br />
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(Question on making the decisions in a household)<br />
“A leader is not the guy who makes all the decisions—he’s the guy that’s responsible for the decisions that are made.”<br />
“The best leaders I&#8217;ve seen give away the successes of a decision (if it’s successful) and they own all of the responsibility if something goes bad.”<br />
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“Ultimately the test of your leadership is in what the people under your influence are becoming like, and that’s humbling. Which tells you, by the way&#8211;on discipleship, I don’t believe in this whole ‘I have one disciple.’ I think you should have a few people in your life, because you’re going to adopt their strengths and weaknesses, and you want some overlap of those strengths and weaknesses between different people.”<br />
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“We all live in this myth that to be a leader, you have to have a position of leadership.”<br />
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“The guys who I’ve eventually seen become the best leaders were always good followers, because a good leader knows what it’s like to have people following you, and knows what it’s like to be treated well and treated poorly under oppressive and servant leadership.<br />
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“You guys should be leadership factories. You’re chewing it all up, you’re saying ‘I want to do that. Oh I don’t want to do that. I want to talk like that; I don’t want to sound like that… always processing. Pick the flowers and leave the weeds in the leadership opportunities that you see in front of you.”<br />
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(Question on how young men can avoid pride that comes with leadership)<br />
“Pride is always the consequence of observing yourself and not observing Jesus. If you keep your mind on Christ, it’s going to mitigate and control your pride. If Jesus is part of your life and not the point of your life, I don’t know how you could ever check pride. Pride is always, always crushed by a healthy view of God, and there’s no better view of God than of Jesus.”<br />
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“If you don&#8217;t think Jesus is great, you will think you’re great. There isn&#8217;t room for two great people in your life. Either you, or God. So make it simple.”<br />
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(On spending time with his young sons)<br />
“Our Monday Man School is entirely devoted to doing man things. I’ve taught the boys how to tie a couple of knots on ties—here’s what you use if you have a thick fabric, here’s what you use if you have a thin fabric. We have ‘How to Dress’ night—if you’re dressing up your belt has to match your shoes. Your pants and shirt need to be ironed… We did how to shave… we have a book we’re going through that’s an old book on chivalry—on how to treat a lady… sometimes Kim [Rick’s wife] comes in and talks about how to treat a lady…”<br />
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(On doing activities with his children)<br />
“The last time I took Mark out—and I think this was a spiritual moment—we played ‘Dots.’… And you know why? Because Mark said ‘Dad can we play Dots?’ And I said ‘Yeah, we can.’ I heard Sinclair Ferguson say one time through Eric Bancroft that it’s important to tie as many strings to kids heart as you can—spiritual and in general interest—so that if they ever struggle spiritually, you have other roads that are attached to their heart, other strings to their heart. If my son is struggling spiritually, I know he likes long boarding so we can talk about long boarding.”<br />
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(Question on receiving criticism)<br />
“I think godliness begins to say ‘What can I find in this criticism that’s true, and recognize that their perception—are you ready for this—their perception of you is their reality of you. And so you have to deal with that perception realistically.”<br />
“Your first response to criticism is rarely going to be a good one.”<br />
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“I’ve come to believe I love sovereignty. Sovereignty is way up there, God is on the throne&#8211;praise God. Sovereignty is easy. Providence is what’s hard. Providence is when sovereignty gets in your life. And he orchestrates things in your life that mess with your peace, and mess you’re your character, and mess with your sense of well-being.”<br />
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(Question on how Rick stepped up during a difficult time in his life, specifically his newborn son’s staph infection bringing them to the Intensive Care Unit)<br />
“They had IVs in his head, his feet his arms. We had to go up with masks and gowns to even be with him for the ten days he was in the hospital. The first two days we thought he was going to die. I remember writing him a letter saying goodbye to him. So Kim was a greater help to me than I was to her at that time, but I think the only thing we knew to do was pray. That was a problem I couldn’t solve, no matter how much leadership I had, I couldn’t fix that.”<br />
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<em>Download the full audio of this interview through the website for Grace Community Church’s ministry at College of the Canyons (in Santa Clarita, CA). <a href="http://gococ.com/Sermons.aspx">Audio file listed online under &#8220;Leadership &#8211; Rick Holland &#8211; 4/27/11.&#8221;</a> Full audio length: 1 hr 17 minutes. A big thank you to Rick Holland for speaking on this topic, while continually striving to live out what he speaks about. Rick Holland has a new book called &#8220;Uneclipsing the Son,&#8221; releasing this summer from Kress Biblical Resources.<br />
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		<description><![CDATA[&#8220;Oh, you two just got lucky!&#8221; &#8230; I know it&#8217;s a well-meaning saying, but it has got to be one of the most naive things I&#8217;ve heard people tell me about my happy marriage. Yes, I&#8217;m incredibly blessed by God, and yes, my lovely wife is worth far more than I could ever deserve, but there&#8217;s something else [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8220;Oh, you two just got lucky!&#8221; &#8230; I know it&#8217;s a well-meaning saying, but it has got to be one of the most naive things I&#8217;ve heard people tell me about my happy marriage. Yes, I&#8217;m incredibly blessed by God, and yes, my lovely wife is worth far more than I could ever deserve, but there&#8217;s something else I want to look at here. Do people really think husband and wife relationships just go well by chance? Do they not believe in human depravity, and somehow think we all just naturally make good choices for the sake of everyone around us? Whatever the case, I don&#8217;t blame people who are a little clueless when it comes to my marriage with Karen, because on average how many hours of hard work each week does a couple pour into their preparation for and maintenance of a healthy marriage? Not that many. And no, I&#8217;m not counting planning out the wedding day&#8211;this is an investment far more valuable than a single day&#8217;s events.</p>
<p>My wife and I are approaching our first anniversary. While we&#8217;re by no means experts on the topic of marriage, we are a little further along than some friends who are engaged or have recently gotten married, so I want to share a list of recommended resources and advice for our friends who are Christians. If something here helps you out, or if you have additional thoughts on the topic, I&#8217;d love to hear from you. For any of the young women with questions, my wife Karen would be happy to help where she can&#8211;and I have to add that she has her Bachelor&#8217;s Degree in Biblical Counseling.</p>
<p>The List:</p>
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<li><img class="alignright size-full wp-image-796" title="what_did_you_expect_dvd" src="http://www.comfortbetrays.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/05/what_did_you_expect_dvd.jpg" alt="" width="150" height="150" />Go through the marriage DVD series from Paul Tripp, &#8220;<a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1886568170/ref=as_li_ss_tl?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=historyofthei-20&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;camp=217145&amp;creative=399349&amp;creativeASIN=1886568170">What Did You Expect?</a>&#8221; - This series that was developed out of a marriage conference contains 10 separate 25-minute sessions. If you can&#8217;t do the DVD version, <a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1433511762/ref=as_li_ss_tl?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=historyofthei-20&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;camp=217145&amp;creative=399349&amp;creativeASIN=1433511762">read the book</a> by the same title.</li>
<li>Ask an older and more mature couple to sit down with you both for premarital counseling. I&#8217;ve heard of this being done in different formats, and I&#8217;m sure there are benefits to different styles, but do this with another couple whose marriage relationship is one that people look up to, and of course, plan to follow up with them after your wedding takes place. The goal here isn&#8217;t to make it to the wedding day&#8211;you as a committed Christian are looking far beyond that to establish a solid marriage that honors God.</li>
<li>Study the attributes of God in a book like A.W. Tozer&#8217;s &#8220;<a onclick="_gaq.push(['_trackEvent','outbound-article','www.amazon.com']);" href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0060684127?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=historyofthei-20&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=390957&amp;creativeASIN=0060684127">The Knowledge of the Holy</a>.&#8221; And if you haven&#8217;t read a book together, keep in mind that there&#8217;s no need to read out loud to each other. I prefer reading on my own while adding post-it notes to the pages I want to review and discuss afterwards, but that&#8217;s only a preference.</li>
<li>Focus on your own individual relationship with God through prayer and through reading your Bible. If you only did one thing on this list, pick this one. Your personal relationship with the Lord will affect all other relationships, so do not neglect it or fool yourself into blending it with another relationship you have.</li>
<li>Get serious about discussing financial issues. Larry Burkett&#8217;s book, &#8220;<a onclick="_gaq.push(['_trackEvent','outbound-article','www.amazon.com']);" href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B00394DGYG?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=historyofthei-20&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=390957&amp;creativeASIN=B00394DGYG">The Complete Financial Guide for Young Couples</a>&#8220; was a very helpful resource for my wife and I to get a quick overview of the major and minor financial choices we would soon be facing together. You NEED to have a plan. If you haven&#8217;t gone through a book like this, you&#8217;ll be amazed to find some things you&#8217;d never thought about that could potentially become real conflicts in marriage without having talked about them <em>before</em> they crash landed in your lap. Secondly with finances, consider picking up Randy Alcorn&#8217;s quick and easy to read book, &#8221;<a onclick="_gaq.push(['_trackEvent','outbound-article','www.amazon.com']);" href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1590525086?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=historyofthei-20&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=390957&amp;creativeASIN=1590525086">The Treasure Principle: Discovering the Secret of Joyful Giving</a>,&#8221; for an eye-opening look at how Jesus would have Christians wisely use their resources.</li>
<li>Go through <a onclick="_gaq.push(['_trackEvent','outbound-article','www.amazon.com']);" href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/031042531X?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=historyofthei-20&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=390957&amp;creativeASIN=031042531X">The First Years of Forever</a> by Dr. Ed Wheat and Gloria Okes Perkins to get a great deal of practical wisdom. They stress the need to seek help when issues come up, rather than make the serious mistake of waiting months or even years before going to others.</li>
<li>Here&#8217;s where I need to recommend a book while putting a huge disclaimer on it. You must read <a onclick="_gaq.push(['_trackEvent','outbound-article','www.amazon.com']);" href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0800719379?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=historyofthei-20&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=390957&amp;creativeASIN=0800719379">Intended for Pleasure: Sex Technique and Sexual Fulfillment in Christian Marriage</a> by Dr. Ed Wheat and Gaye Wheat, but if you&#8217;re not yet married, don&#8217;t start reading this until you are close to your wedding night. You&#8217;ll find over 250 pages of comprehensive and trusted advice, including a key reminder you must not forget: The best way to discover what your partner enjoys will be found not in a book, but through communication with your partner about the subject.</li>
<li>Last but not least, read this solid book about living a Christ-centered marriage by applying the truth of the Gospel to your everyday lives: &#8221;<a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0976758261/ref=as_li_ss_tl?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=historyofthei-20&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;camp=217145&amp;creative=399349&amp;creativeASIN=0976758261">When Sinners Say &#8216;I Do&#8217;</a>,&#8221; by Dave Harvey (foreword by Paul Tripp).</li>
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		<title>Computer technology and the local church</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Our world is becoming increasingly technologically-driven, as each year we see a heavier reliance upon navigating the digital landscape. We see it in the explosive popularity of smartphone Apps, the expanding demand for computer analysts and techs in all industries, and more personally in the climbing expectations for computer discernment being stacked on the requirement list of any future job-seeking candidate today. [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><img class="alignright size-thumbnail wp-image-766" title="new_idea" src="http://www.comfortbetrays.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/05/new_idea_concept_inspirational-150x150.jpg" alt="" width="150" height="150" />Our world is becoming increasingly technologically-driven, as each year we see a heavier reliance upon navigating the digital landscape. We see it in the explosive popularity of smartphone Apps, the expanding demand for computer analysts and techs in all industries, and more personally in the climbing expectations for computer discernment being stacked on the requirement list of any future job-seeking candidate today. So I&#8217;ve been mentally tossing around the idea of where the local church fits into all this, and my purpose here in writing out some thoughts is to expose the needs that may already exist, where a local church has the responsibility of deciding where it fits into this new digital dimension of life.</p>
<p>First of all, is there a need for an official ministry within the local church that focuses on&#8211;shall we call it computer information technology? Yes, most churches already have a media ministry nested under another group, and they might be playing defense just to keep up, but consider the following scenarios:</p>
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<li>Older less tech-savvy generations of church members interested in understanding computers at an entry level.</li>
<li>Church members needing assistance in order to remove viruses and pornography from infected computers.</li>
<li>Pastors, elders, or church members looking for reliable Bible study software tools, potentially with questions about how to best use those programs.</li>
<li>Men (or less commonly, women) seeking help in their personal fight against viewing porn. A response here could include not just providing accountability software made by CovenantEyes.com, but also help to initiate relationships so that those who struggle can voluntarily become accountable to those not currently tempted in the same way.</li>
<li>Church office staff who need training on common tasks such as posting or sharing digital content for church members.</li>
<li>Missionaries in need of computer equipment, training on how to use blogs or other communication tools, and maintenance/troubleshooting done remotely. Safety and security would need to be addressed in the many geographical areas hostile to Christians. A response here could include coordinating with local businesses to receive donations of obsolete equipment for reuse by the church.</li>
<li>Parents seeking help with protecting their children&#8217;s safety and privacy while using computer, smartphones, etc.</li>
<li>Church websites being developed and maintained, if not already taken care of by an existing media ministry. Also related to this area are social media pages like Facebook for posting and passing along relevant news, church events, prayer requests, suggested reading material, etc.</li>
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<p>What if the local church put more emphasis on helping in these areas?  In any of  these examples, an information technology ministry would work differently depending on how big or small a church is and in what geographic area it is located, but the focus would remain on wisely putting God-given resources to use. There would be numerous considerations to think through if an official ministry like this existed: What is the intended goal in mind when addressing each issue? What can or should the church pay for? What potential pitfalls might arise if this function was moved from originally using a local business to now using only internal manpower? Should a different priority be given to low-income members who cannot afford equipment or services? Would other ministries suffer from losing valuable resources or people in the process? Does this ministry keep with the overall goal of the local church&#8217;s intended purpose? Do other churches already have something similar, and if so how does it work?</p>
<p>Comments are welcome.</p>
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